Transformative Power of Listening: Cultivating Change at Reigning Grace Ranch
RGR Co-Founder, Amanda Moore’s vision for empathy, understanding, and unity through equine therapy
Amanda reflects, “As I read the experiences and narratives penned by our Ranch participants for our quarterly, “Ranch Stories” newsletter, a resounding theme emerges: CHANGE. Webster’s Dictionary defines change as making something different, altering, or modifying. It strikes me profoundly that this definition encapsulates the essence of Reigning Grace Ranch — entering our gates promises departure as someone who has experienced deep and meaningful transformation.”
Reigning Grace Ranch epitomizes community. Our mission is to provide a haven for the weary, offering emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual support to all who seek it.
In today’s landscape, mental and spiritual health face unprecedented challenges. Confusion reigns, and the art of listening has diminished. We’ve transitioned from seeking understanding to prioritizing our perspectives, neglecting the heart behind the words. My wise grandmother taught me the value of empathy—of walking in another’s shoes to grasp their perspectives.
When did diverse viewpoints become intolerable? Disagreement transformed into hostility, mirroring the bullying behaviors we warn our children against. If we seek change, it starts with us. Action, not just words, is imperative.
At Reigning Grace Ranch, we teach the art of listening—with our hearts. I often remind my team and the mentored children: we have two ears and one mouth for a reason—to listen before speaking. Seeking to understand precedes the urge to be understood. I wish for our children’s hearts to embody wisdom yet retain innocence, to fearlessly seek truth and embrace healthy friendships.
Horses draw children because they offer steadfast companionship. Kids observe our herd, learning from their stillness and unity. Horses embody tranquility, understanding, and a collective responsibility—traits bestowed by a speaking God if only we’d heed.
We ought to listen more, engage our hearts, find wisdom in stillness, and embrace unity over division. Together, in this shared existence, across generations and centuries, we must lead by example—action speaks louder than words.
Let’s heed the wisdom of a 7-year-old at the ranch: “We all talk enough—now let’s start doing.” Wisdom from the mouths of babes.
